cool queer tip: consider whether your freaking out over a bear wearing a leather harness at a pride parade might be due to your internalized homophobia and sexual respectability politics!

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#IDAHOBIT2022 in 🇱🇺 Luxembourg, a 🧵 thread

Esch[2022], the european capital of this year, and vocal support of the #LXBPRIDE each year had not even bother posting a thing on their social media. Nothing on their website either. The new "thing" is support to 🇺🇦 to be "in".

kinda neg / trans related 

As a trans man who CAN’T top, it’s kinda disappointing and perpétuâtes the fact that I can’t satisfy gay men

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ass but not nudes 

@fuckly I know you’re my biggest fan ❤️😏

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ass but not nudes 

Some pics i just take in the hotel bathroom

And I’m tired that because I’m trans, I just deserve one-stand nights and nothing more. Shit.

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Because I’m tired to fall in love with right-wingers. Please let me be happy

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Hi. I’m seeking for a leftist cutie please.

(Yes you. You’re a cutie, no doubt about it)

I learned that gay men find the clitoris way easier than straight guys.

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I’m in a complex relationship with a pansexual / heteroromantic guy. I know I love him. But it’s not so clear on his side. Even if he acts like we are a couple irl. I suffered a lot of this situation. Now I feel better because I stopped thinking 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Some news :
I ordered a bear hood I will receive I don’t know when. It comes from Ukraine so it can take a long time because of the situation.

:trans: 🇧🇪 hey i'm looking for any #trans or otherwise #queer / #lgbtq people in #belgium who know how the #transition process looks like here. any pointers, websites, organizations, therapist recs, personal anecdotes welcome 👍 :boosts_ok_gay:

I had sex with a trans guy last night. And it was the most respectful sex I had in my life.

He checked regularly if I was okay, if I wanted to continue. He reassured me that we could stop any time, etc…

Honestly I’m wondering if it’s what I really want. Or maybe, this kind of dates for « having fun » doesn’t work for me. I’m too sentimental I’m afraid.

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