cool queer tip: consider whether your freaking out over a bear wearing a leather harness at a pride parade might be due to your internalized homophobia and sexual respectability politics!
kinda neg / trans related
As a trans man who CAN’T top, it’s kinda disappointing and perpétuâtes the fact that I can’t satisfy gay men
And I’m tired that because I’m trans, I just deserve one-stand nights and nothing more. Shit.
Because I’m tired to fall in love with right-wingers. Please let me be happy
I learned that gay men find the clitoris way easier than straight guys.
I’m in a complex relationship with a pansexual / heteroromantic guy. I know I love him. But it’s not so clear on his side. Even if he acts like we are a couple irl. I suffered a lot of this situation. Now I feel better because I stopped thinking 🤷🏻♂️
Honestly I’m wondering if it’s what I really want. Or maybe, this kind of dates for « having fun » doesn’t work for me. I’m too sentimental I’m afraid.
Non bear-nary transmasculine pup
Here for love and attention
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