So, I'm a crossdresser. Only my ex-wife, my kids, and a few close friends knew that before you read it here. I haven't done anything with it for about three years, since my wife and I split up. We spoke tonight for the first time in about a year and a half, and the question of where I was with that came up. My girlfriend, whom I live with, does not know. My ex pointed out that it was really not so big a deal. I should just tell her. Really the only reason I haven't is due to anxiety.
@oweinh bear hugs from Alaska. Must have been hard writing that post. My experience had been much as your ex indicated. Be happy in your desires. It’s hard to stand up and be your fantasies, but with the right woman it’s a plus.