@bootblackcub @aphyr Surprise it’s Trauma!?! https://www.verywellmind.com/adhd-and-peer-relationships-20805 We tend to clump together to support each other because we can relate to the damage and defense mechanisms. I also think leather kink and other outlets like them let adhd folks leave their anxiety behind and express themselves. They are usually safe spaces and supportive in a way we very much need.
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