Obviously there is shit like racism and abilism that actively pushes people out of spaces they should by rights be part of.
But there's also a lot of yt/abled people who don't face those issue and their dissatisfaction boils down to they dislike their dating pool.
So was ok.
Texture wasnt great but tasted alright.
Cold baked potatoes are superior for hashes.
So apparently Chris @ http://gearfetish.com put a survey form up on that domain asking about possibly bringing the site back.
I advised that if he wants to win back trust, he should either let someone else take over the domain, or else run it on a cooperative basis, not alone.