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@Dragonholley ohh, well I always had an extra interest in it whenever I would come across it in comic books or TV shows, but I only learnt it was a proper fetish comunity when I stumbled on a website when I was 21
@bootblackcub what's a kink that is relatively tame/common that you're surprisingly not into at all? (Regardless of role)
@ActualRecluse for me it would be watersports. A lot of my friends are into it and I don't really get it.
@banjo hhhmmm, this is tricky. There was no one big moment. More a growing compounding of realisations about myself over time.
@bootblackcub that’s interesting. It contrasts to how I felt when I learned about bears: it was like lightning struck and I knew this was me. Maybe that’s why I’ve never identified as a leather person per se…
@bootblackcub very interesting. The lack of that same “feeling-of-knowing” has led me to feel inauthentic in leather spaces, like an interloper rather than someone who truly belongs.
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